Sad, that so many are ashamed of their marriage. Just don't misrepresent what you are Posting is satyr69 & others ( myself included ) position; should you be claiming to be Amateur ( Pro's ANYTHING Goes ). Doubt that they want to Display A Marriage Certificate, so..... Wear The Band/Ring. Not complicated and does not require an Act of Congress ( Mainstream Media misrepresents or spins almost everything, well enough for everyone ).